Me And The Trans Community

You may know, as I’ve mentioned it before, that I’m pansexual, which is the same thing as bisexual, because now bisexual means you can be attracted to more than one sex instead of just two, when pansexual was right there the whole time meaning more than two. Doesn’t make sense to me, but whatever.

You know what’s fucked up? The queer community is always fighting just to be accepted by everyone else, when they can’t accept each other. That’s right folks, different letters in the LGBTQ+ community hate each other.

I found out a lot of them hate bisexuals. Especially if they’re a female bisexual married to a straight man, or vice versa. Not sure why, but whatever. Why hate anyone, ever? Maybe that’s the pan coming out in me, but seriously, we’re all on the same side overall, so why? WTF?

And I found out a lot of us hate the trans community, and vice versa. The trans community hate lesbians apparently. I could be wrong on all of this and only relaying opinions that belonged to just the people I heard it from, but I’ve heard all this from a lot of different people.

Personally, as I said, I love them all. But for some reason, trans people hate me. And I have no idea why.

Me, Sexuality, Social Media, And Bigots

A few years ago now I realized I was bisexual. Shortly after I realized, as so many do, that I’m not bi, I’m pansexual. The difference, for those who don’t know, is that bisexual means you’re attracted to two different sexualities. Typically that means men and women, but can be any two of the 50+ sexualities. Pansexual means you can love anybody, regardless of sexuality. That’s where I am.

So if any of you have visited my Spreadshirt shop Chicken Sponge recently, that would explain my newest, awesome design…

Yeah, he’s tasty, but I don’t know him and have no clue what his sexuality might be. He’s just a model.

That’s the pansexual logo and colors, my design. It’s on more than shirts, too. Go get one. Or 100.

Despite my newest discoveries about my own sexuality, I’ve always been a supporter, or ally, for the LGBTQ+ community, even before it had a name made up of a bunch of letters. My cousin is gay. One of my best friends ever is gay.

The fact of the matter is, I’m not a stupid bigot that thinks everyone should live life according to how they think everyone should live. What you do, as long as it doesn’t harm me, is none of my concern. And anyone being gay doesn’t harm me. It never has.